Transplant Day plus 11

I read a quote from Martin Luther today. ” It is not how well you are doing but how well you are doing when you are not doing well “. So we give praise to the Lord that although just now our circumstances are not great we are doing well. As in 1 Thessalonians ‘be joyful always, pray continually and give thanks in all circumstances..’ so we are and we do !

Yesterday was a short clinic visit just to receive the daily white blood cell boosting shot……….not a great day for Noel but the evening highlight was a icecream and trivia evening, here at Hope Lodge hosted by two college seniors. Noel and I and a lady from Rochester NY and a young man from Georgia, the country not the state, formed a team for the trivia game, we called ourselves The Internationals….sadly Noel had to retire half way through for health reasons but the 3 of us remaining team members went on to win the game…Each receiving a gift card to a local grocery store…One question was.. ” which domesticated animal is not mentioned in the Bible”. I am pleased to tell you was the only person from all the teams who knew this answer…..” the cat” along with being the only person from all teams who knew what language the word Molasses comes from….answer “Portuguese”

Apart from deveioping some large nasty mouth and throat sores ( again seen as normal ) Noel has been a fraction better today but still plagued by all the nasty side effects…and just on a oatmeal and chicken noodle soup diet….

His blood tests to day showed he still needed to get a unit of platelets but his red count was a fraction above the transfussion level so he did not need red cells today, just the platelets and his shot for the white cells both of which are still too low.

Saturday and Sunday he just has to go to the clinic to get that daily shot and Monday it’s back for blood work and seeing the Dr /PA and what ever is needed……. As Monday will be transplant day plus +14 ( yes two weeks ) the Doctors expect to see some improvements in his cell counts…. Then we should begin to see signs of engraftment of the new stem cells in the bone marrow anywhere up to day +30. A real milestone on the road to day +100. Which still seems so far away.

Thank you for all your on going prayers, thoughts and messages….. They so encourage us…..Noel as yet does not feel up to talking on the phone or replying to your messages but he sends you all his love and when he feels more like himself again will be back ‘on line’ as they say……….till then hopefully I am keeping everyone posted but again sorry I can not reply personally too every message……but know every message is important.

A have a blessed and happy weekend end after a mini heat wave here in Boston with record temperatures this evening we got rain and it seems refreshingly cool…..

A huge thank you to those who are generously helping us though this journey, your support is a blessing and greatly appreciated.

Thank you also to the 3 friends who have donated to Caringbridge who provide this free web site ..you donation helps them do that.

If you live in our home area a friend Deacon Alan Hart is putting on a benefit concert of his and others folk songs this coming Thursday evening at 7 pm. In St Mary ‘s Church, Lake Luzerne, New York. Noel and I have greatly enjoyed the other concerts Alan has given in the past and we wish we could be there to hear his great music…..”Thank you Alan”

Transplant Day plus 9

Yesterday was low today lower on all counts…

..PA says he sould see improvements by day 14… Right now that seems a long way off…

Doctor said fully expects him to feel like S*** today!….. and he does!

Getting platelets and 2 units of red cells again plus the daily shot…. Infusions will take over 3 hours so having already being here since 7am and now being 10:30am it’s another long day at the DFCI. Where it is Celerbrate Cancer Surviorship Day. Yes, for more birthdays!

Noel will try with Dr’s permission taking a double dose of sleeping med this evening and hope for better sleep and trying something different for the terrible itching, sadly they don’t want to give oral drugs for the horribly painful yeast infection as it would react badly with a couple of the other drugs he is taking.

We are trying to stay positive keeping our focus on the positive things to come. And trying to encourage those we meet with a smile… And a blessing…

Thanks for sticking with us through this journey… you are a great blessing to us both… God Bless you.

Record day for time spent in the clinic. 7 hours 15 mins. No wonder when children have a BMT they stay much longer as inpatients…

Transplant Day plus 8

Noel’s lowest day to date….

Noel did sleep a little better last night with the aid of the new drugs but suffering greatly from the effects of his greatly compromised immune system and from the huge amounts of antibiotics he is getting…he has a very painful yeast infection and the topical treatment suggested by PA yesterday is bringing little or no releif.

After our 8am visit to the clinc today for his Neupogen shot , no tests or infussions sheduled for today, we retuned home to Hope Lodge where he feeling very chilled decided to go back to bed and has been sleeping.

So this I would say is his lowest and most difficult day both physically and mentally……..at around 2 pm we have a local guy coming to bring us communion so I am praying that will bless Noel and lift his spirits…

We have longer day at the clinic tomorrow with a 7am start again please pray this will be a better day in all respects.

Transplant Day plus 7

It’s a week since the transplant.

Super early start….had to be at the clinic for 7am. A blessing they have muffins,tea / coffee and fresh fruit. Noel can eat fresh fruit only if it has thick skin…so he had an orange…he is missing fresh fruit and salads.

Blood counts first….no real change. When we saw the Doctor’s NP she said they did not expect to see any real change till around day +12 and his very low counts are normal…also feeling well below par is normal…..today white cells the same at .9 ( point 9) 3.8 to 9.2 is normal
Red cells 3.24 yesterday 3.1 normal 4.2 to 5.6. The 2 units made a little difference. And platelets today where 13 from 9 yesterday they should be 155 to 410 !

Noel did not need red cells today just got a unit of platelets and his white cell boosting injection, which untill I reminded her the nurse almost forgot to give him!
NP prescribed a prescription medicine for the itching and rash he has from low platelets and a sleep aid to help him sleep, fatigue with no sleep is not good.

Question was asked in one message from friends about Noel’s neutrophil level quoting the normal UK counts…. Not sure the system for measuring is the same here ( I know measuring my diabetis is way different between the two countries) but Noel does have Neutropenia hence he is getting the shot of Neupogen daily to help encourage the growth of new white cells. Today his white count was 0.9 when normal range is 3.8 to 9.2. So has little or no resistance to infection right now. Hence all the different antibiotics he is taking which in themselves have unpleasant side effects that he is having to deal with…….. But every day is one day closer to the 100 on the year’s road to recovery….

We are so enjoying reading messages posted by friends we have not seen for quite some time ( years) it is amazing how the word has got out and through the wonders of modern technology we can be in touch
again..

We are always sad to read of others who are on their own journey with cancer or other health issues and we are keeping you in our prayers. For full healing, strength and courage as you fight the battle. Remember FROG. Fully rely on GOD……

Such beautiful weather here, sunny and warm, hot in the sun….although we are not in it. Here at the Hope Lodge they have a large stand with tourist brochures, there are so many interesting places to see…I am looking forward to the day we only have to come back for 3/6 or 12 monthly reviews and maybe then we can play at being tourists…..

God Bless you all for walking this walk with us….the Lord’s rod and staff comfort us and your friendship encourages us, thank you.

Father’s Day 2012 – Transplant Day plus 6

Friday was day plus 4 and back to the clinic at the Dana Farber Cancer Inistute for Noel’s blood level tests and a shot of Neupogen to boost the white cells…most of the day spent resting.

Saturday was day plus 5 and we spent over 4 hours in the clinic as Noel needed to get blood work done along with the daily shot of Neupogen and he also needed an infussions of another unit of platelets and a unit of red blood cells…. He felt very fatigued and bothered by side effects.

Today Sunday day plus 6 our visit lasted over 5 hours…..with Noel being infussed with a chemo drug called Methotrexate which helps to stop the rejection of the new stem cells along with the other anti rejection drugs he is taking daily in tablet form. Received his daily shot for the white cells and today he needed another unit of platelets and 2 units of red blood cells….and also an infussions of magnesium. All this took a long time to drip into him. He read a little but mostly napped and I watched old TV shows on my iPad.

We were able to have a sandwich and a drink from the food cart at lunch time. Provided free for paitents but they always have plenty so let caregivers have some too for which I am grateful.

Noel is not sleeping well at night, has some bouts of terrible itching and soreness and his digestive system is disturbed requiring frequent bathroom trips, antacid medication and imodium are helping a little. He is very fatigued, feeling way below par….Please pray that these ‘normal’ but very unpleasant side effects will soon be less bothersome.

Today Sunday Noel’s blood levels were at their lowest, for those who understand this….
Platelets. 9. Normal reading would be 155-410
White cells 0.9 … … …. 3.8-9.2
Red cells. 3.1. … … …. 4.2-5.6

As I understand it a sign of the new stem cells engrafting to Noel’s bone marrow will be when his counts go up without having to get the frequent transfusions.

Our faith stands strong and we have great peace of mind that all will be well….and even though the walk is not easy we realize it is so much easier than many others we meet along the way who have tremendous battles to fight. We are so grateful for all your payers.

We are also grateful for the many , many messages we are receiving. All are a great encouragement to us and every message blesses us.

Both of us are very sorry we can not reply to you all personally….please don’t feel rejected in any way….your messages are important to us and so are you.

Happy Father ‘s day to you all….. I, Meryl am so grateful for my own father who I was blessed to have for the first 38 years of my life and I am blessed to have had a good father for my sons and that they are now good fathers to my grandchildren.

Transplant Day plus 3

Day plus +3. Just now day 100 seems so far away…

The day began early as Noel’s clinic appointment was at 7:30am….valet parking is a wonderful thing..to our surprise when Noel checked in he had 4 appointments this morning…so we actually spent over four and a half hours there, not what we were expecting. Blood work, an IV infussion of one of the drugs he needs, a discussion and review the the PA and getting the shot of neurogen to boost white blood cell production….this shot and he needs one each day, costs over $1,000 a time if you don’t have insurance …with it’s just a couple of hundred!! Say it quick and it just sounds like pocket change…………….

Today, as to be expected and ‘normal’ Noel is very weary, has some physical reactions to the transplant and all the drugs..so I am glad he is taking a good long nap….sleep I believe is all part of the healing process.

We thought from the printed schedule tomorrow was a day off from the clinic but no. We do have appointments, bloodwork and shots so it will be every day but to vary the timetable not always at the same time.

Weather in Boston is warm and sunny after all the rain yesterday. Sadly Noel has to coverup and wear a high factor sun cream he never did enjoy being in the sunshine but now has to avoid it…

Impossible to comment on everyone’s posts. But to answer the question why no spring water to drink ? but tap water is Ok…spring water is pure but not treated with any chemicals to kill any bacteria as is tap water…you and I have enough anti bodies in our immune system to cope but Noel no longer has a functioning immune system .hence all the rules and regulations about his food and life style.

Also a couple of people have quoted my favorite verse….Isaiah 40 :31
……they will renew their strength……run and not be weary…..walk and not faint…….this a great verse of encouragement to us…. Noel wants to run again with Charlotte and Lucy. Who love to run……..and he will.

So progress is slow and infact it is quite normal for the graph to have dips down before it reaches back up to normal…..we still have a long way to go.

Thanks Sarge..we love you! God bless and protect you all…..XX.

Transplant Day plus 2

Day plus +2 discharged from hospital now staying at the American Cancer Society’s Hope Lodge.

The day began early with Meryl leaving the home of her host where she has been staying while Noel has been in the hospital and going to Hope Lodge with her suitcase and collecting a packet of drugs which for some reson had to be shipped there and not to the hospital as the others were. then on tho the hospital. Today was discharge day, so lots of admin to get through, this mornings blood test showed Noel needed a boost of red blood cells so received a unit by transfusion.

A hospital pharmacist spent time with us explaining the 18 pills and potions Noel will be taking. Some once a day some twice and some three times…shake rattle and roll….we have printed out timetable to help us remember when and which…I think this is a good thing.

We also got the schedule for the out patients clinic appointments for blood work and daily shots ( injections) first appointment is at 7:30 am tomorrow Thursday….every day except Friday but for at least the next 12 days after that.

Got and signed the discharge papers and Noel was wheeled in a wheelchair to the car park where we had left our car on June 5th, thankfully the hospital give free parking for inpatients cars as other wise it would have cost $300. Meryl braved the Boston traffic and we drove to Hope Lodge. Where we have a very nice compact sitting room, bedroom and bathroom. We have cupboard, refrigerator and freezer allocated space in the family type dining area and use of one of the 4 fully equipped kitchen areas. Meryl was pleaseed there is a Wednesday and Monday run by the Lodge’s minibus to the local grocery store, where she stocked up on food for the next few days.

Everyone is pleased with how Noel is doing although they warned him he may have some more difficult days to come as it is early days so please keep up the prayers for the new cells to engraft and for there to be no rejection and minimum side effects to all the drugs. We said good by to all the wonderful staff on 6A and promised we would not see them again , not as a patient that is.

Many thanks for all your messages it is very encouraging to us that so many of our friends are taking the time out of their busy lives to read our updates and leave us messages and to pray for us. You are all a huge blessing to us.

Transplant Day plus 1

Count down to 100.

Of course yesterday was not Noel’s birthday, that’s in April, but it seems to be a tradition among transplant paitents to have a second birthday!

Some mild side effects today but in good solider fashion Noel is on the march forward… right now he is free of his IV pole for a short time and out of his room wearing face mask and gloves walking in the pod, this isolation ward of 10 small rooms is in an air controlled pod, entered through air lock doors. So for the first time for a few days he is up and walking, no doubt be back in his room for a nap quite soon…

Yesterday we had a visit from the dietitian, to explain the guidelines for his nutrition for the next 100 days / one year. A lot of extra care and common sense about keeping everything super clean and free from bacteria and lists of permitted foods and those not permitted and restrictions like no restaurants, no takeout food so it will mean some changes but we will do it. No wine or beer and no spring water. The list is quite long of do’s and don’ts.

We still have to be instructed on all the oral drugs but I think we have decided to make daily visits to the Dana Farber clinic for his shots so I do not have to give him them but that could change and I may have to learn how to do it. I’m OK with flushing his lines but giving shots is out of my comfort zone!

We are looking forward to leaving the hospital and moving tomorrow to the
AstraZeneca Hope Lodge
125 South Huntington Avenue
Jamaica Plain, MA 02130

Although we will have a busy time with clinic visits and I will have to cook all Noel’s food. It will be more relaxing than hospital. The lodge has 40 guest suits for cancer patients and is run by the American Cancer Society.

This week we heard of one friend who lost her battle with cancer and another who received the diagnosis… as you pray for us please remember all those lives that are touched someway by this thing with many faces called cancer.

Yesterday Noel wore his Team Charlotte in honor of our granddaughter and her own battle 3 years ago with cancer. She now still cancer free is a healthy and happy soon to be Kindergarten Kid. Praise the Lord!

Please continue to follow our journey, we have quite a way to goand you are all a great encouragement to us. Please keep praying. Thanks.

Happy (New) Birthday Noel

Happy (New) Birthday Noel… Noel started to receive his new stem cells at 9:18pm. This evening… nurse is sitting watching to make sure all is well. Noel given lots of anti rejection drugs… the hospital Chaplain came and said a blessing over them… We feel good about it all and believe this is the way God has chosen to bring healing to Noel, we give Him thanks and are grateful for the gift from the donor.

Thank you all for your ongoing prayers, please keep praying and following our journey over the next critical 100 days and year of recovery.