No shower as the say he is neutropenic so won’t let him shower in case of getting an infection so had to wash up at the sink and do feet in a bowl.
Transplant Day minus 2
Hospital seems so much quieter than on other days when it has seemed like a major train station or airport, people everywhere and quite hectic. But just as busy here in room 12. Noel getting almost nonstop infusions of 3 chemotherapy drugs along with all the other IV cocktails,pills and potions and fluids, soon he will be walking drug store.
Noel says coming into hospital on June 5th and going through even the somewhat minor surgery to place the Hickman line in his neck and chest, then being admitted to an ICU/ bone marrow transplant ward all felt a bit like being deployed prior to battle, the first day of chemo sessions on the 6th, a type of ‘D’ day for him! A deep day mentally and emotionally.
We have had a visit from one of the interfaith hospital chaplains, a young Jewish woman, in training to be a Rabbi, doing a summer internship. She was a very nice person and we believe, as she sort to encourage us, she herself was encouraged. We have requested a Chaplain to visit us on Monday to bless the donor stem cells before the infussion (transplant) takes place.
Noel is feeling a little under par today, so resting under the quilt I made him… covered with love. Someone asked if there was a story behind the quilt. I have seen the healing power felt in quilt made and given with love so I decided to make him one as a surprise. Why the Pink Panther? It was his nick name during his time in the Army so I thought it would be fun theme.
Today we have enjoyed reading your messages, God bless you and thank you.
Transplant Day minus 3
Noel now on day three of his intensive chemotherapy, 3 drugs over many hours, lots of fluids, anti nausea drugs, anti biotics, anti rejection so many pills and potions.
Noel is beginning to feel some of the effects of the assault on his body but all in all is still doing OK, resting and following orders, the Doctor on duty just said they are pleased with how things are. We attribute this to all your prayers.
Day seems to have been busy with medical stuff and more information about life after discharge to Hope Lodge next week. That’s when my role as caregiver will kick in! please pray I will begin to feel more confident about this.
Had a good visit from our friends Jim and Jean Morehead and enjoyed reading many messages of encouragement for which we are so grateful but are sorry we cannot reply to everyone.
Chemo on the go…
Meryl Explains How to Stitch in Time
Transplant Day minus 5
Yesterday, June 5th, was a long and busy day. Checking in at the hospital which seems as busy as any airport, registration, lots of waiting, Noel getting a Hickman line implanted for his treatments and blood work. Then settling into his isolation room, small but does have window and looks over the tops of very close tall buildings and we can see the blue sky. Before Meryl left for her hosts home she gave Noel a special gift, a quilt she had made him to cover him with love. (when I work out how I, Meryl will post photos).
All the nursing staff are great. The food is OK.
Today, Noel began his isolation ( face mask and gloves for staff and visitors ) he started the chemotherapy and has just finished receiving 2 different drugs plus an anti nausea drug he will get more chemo later this evening. Then again for the next 3 days. Sunday will be a rest day.
We are trying to keep these updates short but if you would like greater detail please e-mail us and we will do our best to reply. Thank you all for your messages and prayers, we have great peace and are full of hope and praying for a successful transplant.
FUNDRAISER: Songs by Alan Hart
On THURSDAY, JUNE 28, at 7PM Deacon Alan Hart will present a benefit concert in the sanctuary of St.Mary’s Episcopal Church in Lake Luzerne, NY to help Noel and Meryl Dawes.
Noel is battling a serious illness, and he and Meryl could use our financial and spiritual support as they go through this difficult time. The concert is free, but a freewill offering will be taken and all proceeds will go to the Dawes family to help with out-of-pocket expenses which are mounting.
Deacon Alan will sing many of his own songs he has written over the years, including “Chestertown,” “You and I, You and Me” and “Psalm 23.” Come and join the fun!
Memorial Day
It is now confirmed that I will be admitted to the Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston, MA on 5th June to have a bone marrow transplant on June 11th. This is still finally subject to the donor remaining suitable in every respect, as well as my own health staying viable enough for the specialist to continue the process.
Noel will have a central line put in on June 5th before being admitted to the transplant ward. From June 5-9, Noel will receive about 6 hours of chemotherapy each day to substantially reduce his bone marrow and immune system. After a ‘rest’ day on Sunday, June 10th, Noel will receive an infusion of bone marrow stem cells on June 11th.
As soon as the infusion has taken place, Noel will receive more drugs to make sure his system stays reduced enough for the new cells to start growing, and to minimize the possibility of their rejection.
From June 5-13, we anticipate Meryl will be with Noel during the day and stay overnight in someone’s home organized by Hospitality Homes. Hospitality Homes is a non-profit organization in Boston which places patients’ family with local folk prepared to offer hospitality in their homes.
Noel leaves the hospital for Hope Lodge on Wednesday, June 13th, remaining there until Friday, June 29th. Both Meryl and Noel will be together at Hope Lodge. Hope Lodge is run by the American Cancer Society. Noel describes Hope Lodge as a “Ronald McDonald House for Grown Ups”!
We hope to come home on June 29th.
Between June 14-29, Noel has progress monitoring appointments at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute (DFCI) on June 14, 17, 20, 22, 25, 27 and 29th.
For 5 or 6 weeks after coming home Noel and Meryl will make weekly check-up visits to Boston. Into the Fall, visits should gradually become less frequent.
Noel has been told to keep as isolated as possible for the first 100 days after the infusion. This takes us to about mid-September.
During the recovery phase, the most important things Noel has to do are:
· Minimize contacts with others, to avoid contracting any illnesses, diseases, colds etc.
· Eat carefully and excellently, meaning well cooked food with a known ‘history’, meaning eating food only cooked by Meryl. Fresh produce and fruit is not allowed, unless it can be proven to be ‘clean’. Milk products should be OK, as they are prepared from pasteurized milk. Frozen food looks also to be OK, after being thoroughly heated or cooked.
We are told that typically transplant patients immune systems are not considered viable enough for the patient to fully re-enter public activities, fly etc for a year after receiving the infusion. After the first 100 days, we are assuming Noel will be able to gradually rejoin society, as advised by his specialist. Noel is hopeful that as he works from home, he will be able to re-start doing phone/email/social networking activities that don’t involve face to face interaction before a year is up.
The time frame and time scales for everything are very open and entirely depend on Noel’s recovery progress day to day, week to week and month to month. The only plan Meryl and Noel have at this moment is for Noel to be a ‘good boy’, obey orders and to recover fully and as quickly as possible!
The medical aspects have now comprehensibly taken over our lives for the foreseeable future!
Please pray for:
- Full restoration of health, including a supernatural healing before the 4th June! [We are conscious that there is a Great Commission aspect to having to go through the transplant, however the Lord wants to work things out].
- For effective and good communication between us and the transplant team.
- That suitable and affordable accommodation will be available close to the hospital in Boston for Meryl from June 5th to 13th.
- Praise God that Hope Lodge, which is where I need to be, is available to us from June 13th to 29th.
- Pray for how we are going to react to the ‘outside world’, especially that our granddaughters, Charlotte and Lucy, whom we see most days, will not feel rejected by the different way we will have to relate to them for the foreseeable future.
- For sufficient finances to cover the myriad of things such as co-pays, co-insurance costs, car parking, extra accommodation costs, In the longer term pray for gas for the nearly 450 mile round trip between Glens Falls and Boston.
Above all, pray that the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Phil 4:7).